So they have been telling you are going to live longer. They, who group come to the discussion as experts from a wide swath of scientific fields have determined that we are going to live well past the age that our parents will attain and because of this, we are in some serious financial trouble. Retirement accounts are not robust enough to sustain such a prediction which has caused one outlandish reaction: work longer. And another result of this new longer life, we feel as though our retirement accounts can be built (or in many instances, rebuilt) should we need the funds.
Most of us have heard that starting early leads to bigger account balances thirty or forty years later. And some of us did heed that call to begin the process at an early age. We were prudent and optimistic. Yet at some point, we also became realists. If we are poised to work until we are well into out seventies, does forty years old become the new twenty? If we have this enormous stretch of time in front of us and we know that accounts do better over a longer period, wouldn’t the rational also suggest that if we used those accounts to fund college, those accounts would recover?
The answer to both questions would be yes. There are a couple of things at play here when the conversation turns to how to pay for college for your kids. One is the continued belief that this financial outlay will be worth it no matter the cost (if you attended college, this becomes a mote point and if you didn’t the concept that the education will improve your child’s life, helping them rise above the financial status you as parents have). And both arguments have merit.
But which is better: saving for college before they attend, when your resources are limited or helping them pay for it after-the-fact when your income might be better suited to help pay for the outstanding loans? There will always be those who believe that the before-the-fact accounts will give parents peace of mind that their children will be able to attend college. 529 Plans, offered at the state level, do have tax incentives for those that use them.
But for the parents who are just beginning with a household income of less that $80,000, channeling that money into your retirement is a far better choice. I argue this for two reasons: one, the cost of getting a child to college age has increased faster than the cost of tuition. Neither are getting less expensive and it is far easier to embrace what you know rather than plan for the unknown.
And secondly, money will always be available to borrow for college and usually at a relatively competitive rate. While the student remains as student, no payments are made on the loan except in some instances, interest payments might be required. This is budget-able and do-able cost for the average family. In addition, you may actually be in a better financial situation to help with those post-college expenses as an older parent than you were when they were toddlers.
There is no denying that college has merits. There is also no denying that the costs are going to continue to rise. I just believe that as long as the money can be borrowed and the length of time to pay it back is as long as it currently is, the cost of this after-the-fact experience is worth it if, and this is a big if, you financed your retirement during those formative years – when you were young.
Sacrificing your retirement account’s funding in those early years is not offset by the rewards of higher education. Fund yourself first, then your kid’s college. No child wants a financial insolvent parent to care for because you put them through college when you could have been insuring a healthy retirement instead.